Perhaps it's my fault for not really looking at standard bed measurements vs. quilt size...I don't know. We just purchased a Queen size bed and I was excited to order new bedding. (Don't get me wrong, I love all the work that went into the handmade quilts we've been sleeping under for years, but finally getting to pick my OWN style was exciting.)So...softness. I've seen some complaints about it not being soft. Like I said, we've been sleeping under well-washed, handmade cotton quilts for years which kind of define softness and I would still describe this as soft enough. Obviously a little stiffer, but overall comfortable.Weight: Comparable to a lightweight quilt. I don't like heavy blankets and this was perfect. I think I could sleep under it in the summer. Winter will definitely require an additional layer.Looks: Oh my stars, this is exactly what I wanted. Not plain, but not a color or pattern that was overwhelming. We got the navy/white and I felt the colors were true to the picture.The only downside...this spread is small. If you want a nice overhang on the sides and end of your bed, you MUST order a size up and get a king. Ultimately I'm not picky enough to try to send this back (plus I already pre-washed it before putting it on our bed), but if I did it over I'd go up a size. We've got maybe 3 inches overhang at the foot, and that's without it pulled up the full way, maybe 6 on each side? Not enough to cover the sides of our mattress. Again, not picky. I love the design so we'll use it for now, eventually it will end up on my kid's bed (our old full mattress) when he leaves for college and will make a lovely guest room.